Final Reflections
Viola Davis’s character, General Naniska carried shame in her flesh, in her heart, in her spirit although the audience doesn’t find out till later in the film the reason why she gets flashbacks, sleep deprived … her past had been haunting her until she was confronted by it, even then she refused to face her truths until later on. What I found poignant in this story is not only the impact she has on all the women warriors, it was being confronted with myself as if I was looking at myself in a mirror.
Here is the absolute truth looking at myself, my sisters, my cousins, my nieces, my mother, my aunts, other family members and friends, I have identified a pattern that resurfaces time and time again.
This SHAME, we tend to be carrying so naturally like the air we breath. I’ve always seen the strength, the act of not showing weaknesses, now I see beyond, I can easily and clearly see the scars, the facade, the tears, the worries and the fear in myself and others too. I believe it is my purpose to lead women through their shadows the way I was able to do so for myself too.
Her daughter, Nawi, played by Thuso Mbedu was rejected all her life before she ended up at the military camp because she grew accustomed to rejection. Doing so meant, she rejection took as a cape of honour, making her feel like she was strong enough to overcome all no matter what life threw at her - even given her young age.That is also until she faced her ultimate truth, the one she didn’t see coming, the numbing feeling of pain however excruciating, she accepted her truth and within the compound of the tribe she felt safety like never before.
Once again, the narrative of strength surfaced, this time though the sense of greater good for the community surpassed all else.
Women are powerful, not only because they are the roots of humanity but also because they are the protectors, the nurturers and the fierce warriors of life. The fears however constantly present do not hold to the faith of better which is yet stronger than all else and with this blog I invite you to seek this faith in yourself too and to live a life in your purpose acknowledging your past hurts and healing for your good and the good of all!
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